Monday, August 25, 2014

A Little Bounce-House Lesson

bounce-house envelope
Josiah: Momma, raisins please.
Me: Sorry Juju. We don't have any more raisins.
Josiah: Momma, go store buy raisins.

I guess it isn't too early to teach about being wise with money. So I had a simple conversation with my toddler when he asked to play on a bounce-house and I didn't have any money with us. I told him that we need money to eat, to live in our apartment and to have fun. If I used all our money for fun, then we wouldn't have any money for food. "Ooohhhh, yes!" responded Josiah as if he was grasping the concept.

So, my little toddler has been allotted 2 ten lei bills a week to go to the bounce-house and play. That is just less than two dollars. He was elated! He keeps them in a special envelope. He knows that when he uses up the money, he has to wait until Sunday when he gets two more.

Of course, the bounce-house days are usually the first days he get his lei. Ten lei gets him ten minutes of bounce-house fun, so that is twice a week he gets to go.

Here is how our conversation went after the first week:

Josiah: No more money. Finished!
Me: You will need to wait until Sunday when you get two more.
Josiah: (After a pause) Momma, go store buy money.

Okay, so maybe it is baby steps...


So sad. Too wet to play on!

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Chaotic Crafting With Two





It's been a busy three months, but we are settling into being a family of four. Today we even broke out a craft to go with our story, The Three Little Pigs.

It was the fastest craft we have done. It kind of went like this...."draw a big circle, draw a little circle, quick-color, cut, glue, clip"...and done! It was accomplished while Evan serenaded us in the background with his protest to be picked up.

Evan enjoyed the story much better than the craft. Josiah is always ecstatic to have a glue stick in his hands. And I got to feel like a creative mom, even if it was a little chaotic!

Monday, August 11, 2014

Lazy Golubtsy


I've been longing to make this dish. It is a simple recipe that always gets me excited to pick up my spoon and be glad to be at a Moldovan dining table. Any Moldovan will probably chuckle at this, as it is a simple and common dish. Plus, the cost of this meal puts my American recipes to shame. 

True to its name, it is the lazy version of the cabbage rolls. I guess this is my way of working up to actually making cabbage rolls.

I used ground beef with this recipe, but you could also use chopped chicken or go without meat.




Ingredients:
meat
diced onions
chopped cabbage
grated carrots
water
rice
tomato paste
dill
bay leaf
salt
pepper


  • Sauté meat along with onion until meat in almost cooked through.
  • Add cabbage and cook until leaves are tender.
  • Add carrots and cook for a few minutes.
  • Add amount of water according to how much rice is used and bring to a boil.
  • Add rice, tomato paste, dill, bay leaf, pepper and salt. Use a good amount of salt.
  • Stir together, bring the water back to a boil, then reduce heat, cover and cook until rice is soft.
  • To complete this Moldovan dish, you need to slice of bread to go with!


*The next time I make this dish I'll use less rice and include more cabbage.



Monday, July 14, 2014

E and His Little Blue Book


Evan got his passport book. I guess this means we can come home and visit....well, we'll have to wait a couple of months.

It was a comedy of red tape to get Evan's birth certificate from the civil office, which was first needed before we could register Evan's birth at the US Consulate. First, Mike was told that we needed to get married in Moldova before the birth certificate could be issued. Thankfully that wasn't true. Then it took visiting several notaries before they would accept our marriage certificate without it being sent back to the State of California to be apostille. Three days later we had a birth certificate for our little one and it was off to the US Consulate.

I wish I could show you Evan's passport photo. It makes Grandma laugh so hard I question the cuteness of my kid. But I guess that's what you get when you take a passport photo of a three week old.

Sunday, June 29, 2014

Chicken Salad with Pineapple

For Orthodox Christmas, the Admirals Basketball boys did all the dinner cooking. They did a great job and it was fun watching a kitchen full of teenage boys chopping, stirring and browsing over recipes.

Chicken Salad with Pineapple was one of the dished they made. I was surprised at how tasty it was, especially with the combination of pineapple and potatoes. This recipe has made it into my recipe box and I wanted to share it with you.


Chicken Salad with Pineapple

3 chicken breasts, cooked and chopped
3 potatoes, boiled with skins on, remove skins and then chop
20 oz. can of pineapple chunks, drained
15 oz. sweet corn, drained
1 red pepper, chopped
lots of fresh chopped Parsley
mayonnaise (Moldovans like lots of mayo in their salads)
salt/pepper

*Ingredients are chopped into small pieces, even the pineapple chunks.
Mix all ingredients together and enjoy!

Saturday, June 28, 2014

Circumcision

Circumcision: a surgical removal of the foreskin (prepuce) on a human's penis.

I chose to circumcise my first son based on what I thought was a traditional medical practice. Considered common sense for a parent to have their son circumcised, I didn't question the procedure and had my first son circumcised based on the 'look like daddy' belief.

As I entered the world of parenting, I began to realize circumcision isn't as widely a practice as I thought. I also became aware that many cultures do not circumcision their baby boys. Thus, when it came time to deliver my second son, I knew I had to research the procedure myself.

I researched three areas: Biblical background, American history, and the medical benefits. Here are very brief facts that stood out to me.

Biblical Background:
The Hebrew words used for circumcision are 'naval' (to clip) and 'muwl' (to blunt). The Hebrews were to make a small clip of the overhanging foreskin. They were not to remove the whole foreskin as we do today. If they did, the child would have more than likely bled to death.

Around 140 AD, Rabbis introduced the practice of removing the whole foreskin. Jews were trying to disguise their circumcision as it was causing them to be unable to participate in social events.

American History:
John H. Kellogg
Circumcision was not a medical tradition in American society until about the 1900's. The medical practice was introduced in the late 1800's as a way to discourage masturbation.

"In cases of masturbation we must, I believe, break the habit by inducing such a condition of the parts as will cause too much local suffering to allow of the practice being continued. For this purpose, if the prepuce is long, we may circumcise the male patient with present and probably with future advantage; the operation, too, should not be performed under chloroform, so that the pain experienced may be associated with the habit we wish to eradicate."
-Athol A. W. Johnson, On An Injurious Habit Occasionally Met with in Infancy and Early Childhood, The Lancet, vol. 1 (7 April 1860): pp. 344-345.

"A remedy [for masturbation] which is almost always successful in small boys is circumcision. The
operation should be performed by a surgeon without administering an anesthetic, as the pain attending the operation will have a salutary effect upon the mind, especially if it be connected with the idea of punishment."
-John Harvey Kellogg [creator of the corn flake], Treatment for Self-Abuse and Its Effects, Plain Facts for Old and Young, Burlington, Iowa: P. Segner & Co. 1888, p. 295.

When Mr. Johnson quoted circumcision be used to curtail masturbation only .001% of Americans were circumcised. In 1888, when Mr. Kellogg was quoted, 15% of American males were circumcised. By the 1930's over half of the American male population had undergone this medical procedure.

Medical Benefits:
The original medical benefits of circumcision are far fetched.

"Local indications for circumcision: Hygienic, phimosis, paraphimosis, redundancy (where the prepuce more than covers the glans), adhesions, papillomata, eczema (acute and chronic), oedema, chancre, chancroid, cicatrices, inflammatory thickening, elephantiasis, naevus, epithelioma, gangrene, tuberculosis, preputial calculi, hip-joint disease, hernia. Systemic indications: Onanism [masturbation], seminal emissions, enuresis, dysuria, retention, general nervousness, impotence, convulsions, hystero-epilepsy." Editor, Medical Record, Circumscisus, Medical Record, vol. 49 (1896): p. 430.

"The prepuce is an important factor in the production of phthisis [tuberculosis]. This can be proven by the immunity of the Jewish race from tubercular affections." S. G. A. Brown, A Plea for Circumcision, Medical World, vol. 15 (1897): pp. 124-125.

The Center for Disease Control uses the word 'may' before several benefits to circumcision.

It is challenging for me to believe that the foreskin needs to be removed due to health benefits. God designed the body in a 'fearfully and wonderfully' way.

I wanted to write this post to briefly educate about circumcision. I feel that many Americans don't really know the facts about circumcision or why it is practiced in our society. I didn't. Maybe this will be a springboard to do your own research.

A few links I found helpful about circumcision:
http://www.drmomma.org
http://www.cirp.org/library/history/peron2/



Sunday, June 8, 2014

Artur's Statement


A few Sundays ago we got to attend the baptism of one of the Admiral boys. It was a special event as any baptism should be.

Before his teammates, his mother and those in the church he has been attending, Artur made a public statement of living his life for Christ. There is a profound beauty to see a life changed by the love of God.

"Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it."
                                                                                                                    - Matthew 10:39